Tarzan-Jane Man Woman Relationship

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Man meets woman


Tarzan makes an echoing call while swinging from trees traveling to his destination.  Jane hears Tarzan’s call and begins to follow where the sound travels leading her to meet up with Tarzan.

Tarzan and Jane are a good example of man needing woman and woman needing man.  They lived in the jungle among all the beasts in the state of fruition.

Where are Jane and Tarzan at today?  Here we are man and woman living out of the jungle and yet some men and women are acting like they’re in a jungle.

Out of all the fruitfulness that surrounds man and woman, it appears they still can’t find the ripe fruit for the picking.   Until man and woman are capable of understanding it’s not meant for man (humankind) to be alone, I’m guessing the men will keep beckoning and calling in a language no one will ever recognize but them. And women will continue listening for the sound of music with the perfect rhythm that timely beats with her heart.  Until man and woman come together as one, collaborating, celebrating, COMMUNICATING and loving unconditionally, they will remain fruitless.

I was inspired to write this article after attending a conference of 1100 women. We did an exercise where each person stared into the eyes of nine other women, one at a time, looking into their eyes, the window of their soul; I felt the tears of pain, loneliness, anger, and failed relationships crying out for help.  After the exercise, I continued thinking as I was looking out into the crowd and then later that evening I had a revelation… men were missing, period.  Men and women are the seasoning for life along with Christ! Stay connected to the Vine.


Be Quick to Listen and Slow to Speak!

listen to your Heart


Be quick to listen with your heart and slow to speak with your mind.  Allow time for yourself and stop allowing more time for others to speak to you with their minds.  When you quiet yourself and quiet the mind, you can hear the heart speaking to you.  If you’re inquiring about time, I’m only assuming you may be asking.

  • When Lord?  When will it be my time?
  • When will change come for me?
  • How long do I have to wait?

You may hear your heart speaking saying, in the appointed time you will reap the harvest.  It’s not man’s time, it’s Gods time.  How much time have you spent studying the word of God?  Your time comes from knowing and recognizing the Shepherd’s voice.  If you’re quick to speak and not hear from listening, you’ll never know when the time is your time, it’s God’s time and now is the time to listen to your heart and let it speak words of wisdom to you so that you’ll know when the time comes.  Growing from sowing comes from knowing the words of God.

  • What do you want to grow?
  • Have you been thinking about starting a business?
  • You desire to have a closer relationship with your children?
  • Does it seem as though everything you put your hands on is falling apart?
  • Have you been cutout from a cut back?

There’s only one, who controls all, we must follow the plan given to us to succeed.  It lies amongst all the organs within your trunk of gifts with body parts, and it’s up to you to develop and unveil your hidden treasures buried within.  Only you can do what’s meant for you to do.  If you were given more time and not believed in the power within you, it has nothing to do with time, it has to do with you and me wasting our time, not awakening the Artist within to craft the lifestyle of our dreams.


Listening and Doing –

James 1:19 (NIV)

My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this:  Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.

Help Get Me Out Of Here!

Close your eyes.. count to three... Now open!
Close your eyes.. count to three… Now open!

I understand where you R. Been there and at times will find myself going back there. Where? Where no one wants to be alone, where there are people and yet they don’t see or hear you, and yet you feel alone. Where everyone talks about what they want to talk about and hear and yet when it’s your turn, you’re left alone. You live in a house filled with people or a mind filled with voices and yet you feel alone. People are everywhere and still there’s no one to talk to…

So you walk around like a big tear drop waiting to fall. Knowing if and when you fall the rain will come and wash your tear drops away. So you hold back and keep going knowing one day the sun will shine and dry all your tears away…..

It seems as though it’s hard getting out of there. You get there and realize the grass is not as green over there. If you didn’t go there, you wouldn’t be here. Now can you see yourself getting here from there?

Help and get me from there to here!

Life may try to flip us from one side to the other. Even though I sleep on my right side, I find myself turning on to my left side. After lying there for a few hours, I managed to turn back onto the right side and all the time while laying on the side that’s uncomfortable I asked myself …”why am I sleeping on the side that’s uncomfortable”? my answer .. “the side that’s comfortable to sleep on got uncomfortable”. When we get to comfortable, the comfortable becomes uncomfortable and can cause us to switch sides. If you choose the right side to find comfort … He promises to keep you in perfect peace as long as your mind stays on Him…… for further discussion read Isaiah 26:3

Where are you?  How did you get there? 

It’s as simple to get out of there as it was getting here.



Valuables vs. Values


How would you identify the most valuable values you have?  If we look at our values, it can determine what’s really valuable to us.   Go in deep and take a look at the valuables that add value, that’s unseen and yet foreseen, or let’s look at what we take for granted that has value and unforeseen.

  • Foreseen ~ In front.  You know.  Anticipate
  • Unforeseen ~ Unexpected…like an accident
  • Unseen ~ Hope trust oxygen believe
  • Values ~ Builds character. Integrity. Appreciation. Treasure.
  • Valuables ~ Costly. High Priced. Rare. Useful.

Valuable makes reference to monetary, costly, self esteem, rare and precious.  How much are you willing to pay for something?

The dollar amount you decide to pay will add monetary value.  Like Art, is only worth what someone is willing to pay.   Take a look at a Rembrandt painting or Picasso and other well known and unknown Artists.  These Artist place value in their natural ability to create, also their gift, talent, time, craft and belief which adds value to their production of productivity, their paintings being auctioned off for millions to the highest bidder.   The value of their abilities is priceless.  The mindset to use their natural buried treasures, a wealth of gifts and talents produces valuables. They pay by their time believing, learning, growing and all the while the canvas of their minds holds the picture of the end results that will be worth millions!  Don’t take for granted what lies within!

Now, let’s put ourselves up for Auction.  How much do you think someone will pay for you?  This is the only time true values will become more valuable than a piece of art, a car, house, jewelry, designer clothing, bribes, one night stands and get rich quick schemes!  The value will be placed on the hidden treasure buried within that creates your worth, natural talents, gifts, esteem, belief, power and the quality of the price you’re willing to pay.  There is no monetary value.  The only value being attached is through the energy of a higher power within you.  Jesus has already paid the price.  He died so that you may live and Get More in Life! A more abundant life, filled with love, joy, passion and a peace of mind.  Simply put trust and believe in Him.

Every heart beat is rated on a fixed amount.  Rates increase or they decrease. No different than an interest rate on a credit card or mortgage, fluctuating up and down.  Can you recall the last time your heart rate was up?  Why?  Does the reason still exist today?

There is nothing more valuable than you!  The price has already been paid for you.  This price gave you access to everything your heart desires.  You must desire to live a life filled with the spring of living water.  When you take one step toward believing in the power you have to charge a life, you desire to live to get more.  A life you do not have to bargain for.  You will have to pay, not a monetary price but a price that will add wisdom, knowledge and give you peace filled with love and joy while using the passion crafting the lifestyle of your dreams.

So, I would like to leave you with this.   Take a sheet of paper and make a T chart.  At the top write valuable and value. Then list everything that’s valuable, and on the other side write down your values.  See if there’s a negative or positive balance.  You are the only one who can make this decision.

Remember to remain in the Vine.  The vine produces many branches.  Although some may intertwine with each other, they continue to grow.That’s why it’s so important to intertwine with like minded people coming together for a common cause to Get More in Life Coaching, LLC …. Feel free to email me @ Info@getmoreinlifecoaching.com



‘Do as I say’ or ‘Do as I do!’

Start doing what you say!

Um,  I’m sure you’ve heard this before. If we turn it around and say, “Did I do what I said I was going to do?” Let’s look at it differently ( remember there’s more than one way to skin a cat): Are you doing everything within your power to create the lifestyle of your dreams?

When we constantly procrastinate, it allows fear to build, causing a lack in our lives. When we build on the intentions of not doing what we say we are going to do, before we act, our energy has already reacted. Words are powerful and once spoken, they’ve already gone out into the universe, only to return our true intentions back to us!

“In the beginning was the Word and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” John 1: 1-3

When you align your true intentions along with the right mindset, you can create the lifestyle of your dream. When your words begin to form, it takes the energy from the mind to the heart out the mouth,sending currents through the universe. It’s all within you!