Describe yourself by color ….

Self-Help, Color choices
What color would you use to describe yourself ? 

There are many colors to choose.  So many, I truly don’t know where to start.  Let’s say I start with a recognizable movie title, “Lady sings the Blues”.  Does this mean we associate the color blue with a life filled with drugs, depression, drama, gifts and talents that were used and abused?  Or does it mean we color the day blue because of fear and hope intertwined that’s smoldering out a hopeless fire that’s never had an opportunity to burn.

All the fire inside heating up passion, that never gets a chance to ignite, from the gift of love.  Love is there in us; we were created with love.  Somewhere somehow, it was lost or never felt it was given.  This is a hard one to figure out for most, yet simple for myself to think about.

May I ask a question?  Do you love yourself?  To love, we must know love.  Love can’t be measured, only felt from a natural reaction when we act.  The organic roots have been lying dormant attempting to root to find ways around roots that are connected and not growing love, joy, passion, peace and wealth.  Only growing into a ball of confusion, if you don’t start pruning now, these roots will grow together, becoming one.

When we remain withdrawn from letting others into our life, we’re begging to find shelter elsewhere.  We want to be comfortable in our own space.  I understand, if it’s a place filled with love and you can’t wait to get there, if it’s a place to escape from reality and we make choices like drugs, alcohol, or letting others abuse us for sexual exploitation, male or female, remember, we always go back to reality. Even if we choose to live or die, either way, every knee shall bow and every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord!

We must return home (reality) sooner or later.


Valuables vs. Values


How would you identify the most valuable values you have?  If we look at our values, it can determine what’s really valuable to us.   Go in deep and take a look at the valuables that add value, that’s unseen and yet foreseen, or let’s look at what we take for granted that has value and unforeseen.

  • Foreseen ~ In front.  You know.  Anticipate
  • Unforeseen ~ Unexpected…like an accident
  • Unseen ~ Hope trust oxygen believe
  • Values ~ Builds character. Integrity. Appreciation. Treasure.
  • Valuables ~ Costly. High Priced. Rare. Useful.

Valuable makes reference to monetary, costly, self esteem, rare and precious.  How much are you willing to pay for something?

The dollar amount you decide to pay will add monetary value.  Like Art, is only worth what someone is willing to pay.   Take a look at a Rembrandt painting or Picasso and other well known and unknown Artists.  These Artist place value in their natural ability to create, also their gift, talent, time, craft and belief which adds value to their production of productivity, their paintings being auctioned off for millions to the highest bidder.   The value of their abilities is priceless.  The mindset to use their natural buried treasures, a wealth of gifts and talents produces valuables. They pay by their time believing, learning, growing and all the while the canvas of their minds holds the picture of the end results that will be worth millions!  Don’t take for granted what lies within!

Now, let’s put ourselves up for Auction.  How much do you think someone will pay for you?  This is the only time true values will become more valuable than a piece of art, a car, house, jewelry, designer clothing, bribes, one night stands and get rich quick schemes!  The value will be placed on the hidden treasure buried within that creates your worth, natural talents, gifts, esteem, belief, power and the quality of the price you’re willing to pay.  There is no monetary value.  The only value being attached is through the energy of a higher power within you.  Jesus has already paid the price.  He died so that you may live and Get More in Life! A more abundant life, filled with love, joy, passion and a peace of mind.  Simply put trust and believe in Him.

Every heart beat is rated on a fixed amount.  Rates increase or they decrease. No different than an interest rate on a credit card or mortgage, fluctuating up and down.  Can you recall the last time your heart rate was up?  Why?  Does the reason still exist today?

There is nothing more valuable than you!  The price has already been paid for you.  This price gave you access to everything your heart desires.  You must desire to live a life filled with the spring of living water.  When you take one step toward believing in the power you have to charge a life, you desire to live to get more.  A life you do not have to bargain for.  You will have to pay, not a monetary price but a price that will add wisdom, knowledge and give you peace filled with love and joy while using the passion crafting the lifestyle of your dreams.

So, I would like to leave you with this.   Take a sheet of paper and make a T chart.  At the top write valuable and value. Then list everything that’s valuable, and on the other side write down your values.  See if there’s a negative or positive balance.  You are the only one who can make this decision.

Remember to remain in the Vine.  The vine produces many branches.  Although some may intertwine with each other, they continue to grow.That’s why it’s so important to intertwine with like minded people coming together for a common cause to Get More in Life Coaching, LLC …. Feel free to email me @



‘Do as I say’ or ‘Do as I do!’
Start doing what you say!

Um,  I’m sure you’ve heard this before. If we turn it around and say, “Did I do what I said I was going to do?” Let’s look at it differently ( remember there’s more than one way to skin a cat): Are you doing everything within your power to create the lifestyle of your dreams?

When we constantly procrastinate, it allows fear to build, causing a lack in our lives. When we build on the intentions of not doing what we say we are going to do, before we act, our energy has already reacted. Words are powerful and once spoken, they’ve already gone out into the universe, only to return our true intentions back to us!

“In the beginning was the Word and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” John 1: 1-3

When you align your true intentions along with the right mindset, you can create the lifestyle of your dream. When your words begin to form, it takes the energy from the mind to the heart out the mouth,sending currents through the universe. It’s all within you!